Stella Talks Sadomasochism

Stella You Sadist
Stella James

 

Sadomasochism is viewed as a psychosexual disorder in which erotic release is achieved through having pain inflicted on oneself. May I just say yes please?!?

 

I was once shy to discuss this subject. I mean c’mon getting slapped around a little during banging seems intense and can be awkward to talk about. It can be even more awkward to ask for it, but that is why Jesus invented tequila. So since a “friend” of mine has decided to put my sexual desires on blast I have decided to come clean with my sadist nature.

Biting, hair pulling, slapping, choking, you name it I want it. I love the pain with the pleasure. Don’t get me wrong, I like vanilla banging too. It doesn’t always have to be dirty talk and chains. I’m ok with sweet kisses and slow passionate love making, especially with someone I love. That being said, there are also times when I want to get rough, and the bruises left on my body after a weekend of Sado joys are like a trophy. Twisted I know, but when I see a bruise on my thigh or shoulder from a bite I get turned on all over again. I used to feel bad and even ashamed for my dirty little sadist mind. What kind of girl likes this sort of thing? As the years go by, I become more comfortable with my sexual desires and I realize I’m lucky to have enough confidence to express myself. Some people live their whole lives being stuck in a little bubble, never getting to act on their desires because they’re scared of what people will think. I’m here to tell you that I don’t really care what you think. I’m not going around gagged and bound in your house and what I do in my bedroom should have no affect on your life. It’s shocking to me that society has labeled this as a psychosexual disorder. Calling it a “disorder” gives such negative conception to something that feels natural and normal to some. I’m no extremist, my life isn’t a Max Hardcore film, but if you are into that sort of thing you won’t get any judgment here. If you feel safe with your partner and want to be a little rough more power to you. Don’t let the man make you feel bad for expressing yourself, embrace your sadomasochistic ways. People have been unleashing their wildest fantasies since the 1800’s, we shouldn’t hold back now just because it is looked down upon by main stream media. I didn’t make these rules and I don’t really care about breaking them. I refuse to live in a narrow minded world of dull sexual sensitivity. I have no regrets or shame in my game and you shouldn’t either. Grab the whips and satin restraints and get some darlings!

 

Kiss Kiss,
Stella Sadist James